The very song reminds us of the very strong bond that exists between a brother and sister. Irrespective of the religion or caste that one belongs to, siblings share immense love and affection. Being there for each other during good and bad times, siblings are mirrors to each other. All of us cherish the spirit of being a sibling, after all that is what makes a home perfect.
Today is Raksha Bandhan; the day when siblings pray for each others' well being and wish for each others' happiness. The name 'Raksha Bandhan' suggests 'a bond of protection', with "Raksha" meaning protection, and "bandhan" meaning a bound or binding. Generally observed in the month of August, the festival falls on the full moon day of the Hindu month Shravan Purnima and is also known as Rakhi Purnima. The custom originated in the northern and western region of India. The festival of Raksha Bandhan assumes all forms of Raksha: of righteousness and destroyer of all sin. A very close ceremony for Indians, siblings’ travel miles and even countries to meet each other and express their affection. It therefore reinforces ties between them even across continents.
The history of Raksha Bandhan goes back to a woman tying a 'rakshaa' on her husband's wrist to protect him from evil. Gradually this ritual changed and she tied a 'rakshaa' on her brother's right wrist. On the occasion of Rakshaa Bandhan she would visit her brother's home and perform his 'pujan' by applying kumkum and rice grains on his forehead. Sisters prepare the pooja thali with diya, roli, chawal,kumkum, rakhi thread and sweets. The ritual begins with a prayer in front of God, then the sister ties Rakhi to her brother and wishes for his happiness and well-being. The brother in return gives her a gift and vows to protect her. The 'rakhadi' for raksha bandhan can range from a simple coloured cotton string to exquisitely decorated balls of various sizes and materials such as fluffy cotton, 'zari' paper, tinsel, beads etc. the mantra chanted so goes:
"Suraj shakhan chhodian, Mooli chhodia beej Behen ne rakhi bandhi / Bhai tu chir jug jee", which means "The sun radiates its sunlight, the radish spreads its seeds, I tie the rakhi to you O brother and wish that may you live long."
"Yena baddho Balee raajaa daanavendro mahaabalah
tena twaam anubadhnaami rakshe maa chala maa chala", meaning:" I tie you the rakhi that was tied to king Bali, the king of Demons, O Rakhi I pray that you never falter in protecting your devotee. “
The past referencesand evidence to Raksha Bandhan are plenty in books and they include those of:
Rani Karnawati and Emperor Humayun
The story of Rani Karnavati and Emperor Humayun is the most significant evidence in the history. During the medieval era, Rajputs were fighting Muslim invasions. Rakhi at that time meant a spiritual binding and protection of sisters was foremost. When Rani Karnawati the widowed queen of the king of Chittor realised that she could in no way defend the invasion of the Sultan of Gujarat, Bahadur Shah, she sent a rakhi to Emperor Humayun. The Emperor touched by the gesture started off with his troops without wasting any time.
Alexander The Great and King Puru
The oldest reference to the festival of rakhi goes back to 300 B.C. at the time when Alexander invaded India. It is said that the great conqueror, King Alexander of Macedonia was shaken by the fury of the Indian king Puru in his first attempt. Upset by this, Alexander's wife, who had heard of the Rakhi festival, approached King Puru. King Puru accepted her as his sister and when the opportunity came during the war, he refrained from Alexander.
Lord Krishna and Draupathi
In order to protect the good people, Lord Krishna killed the evil King Shishupal. Krishna was hurt during the war and left with bleeding finger. Seeing this, Draupathi had torn a strip of cloth from her sari and tied around his wrist to stop the bleeding. Lord Krishna, realizing her affections and concern about him, declared himself bounded by her sisterly love. He promised her to repay this debt whenever she need in future. Many years later, when the pandavas lost Draupathi in the game of dice and Kauravas were removing her saari, Krishna helped her divinely elongating the saari so that they could not remove it.
King Bali and Goddess Lakshmi
The demon king Mahabali was a great devotee of lord Vishnu. Because of his immense devotion, Vishnu has taken the task of protecting bali's Kingdom leaving his normal place in Vikundam. Goddess lakshmi - the wife of lord Vishnu - has became sad because of this as she wanted lord Vishnu along with her. So she went to Bali and discussed as a Brahmin woman and taken refuge in his palace. On Shravana purnima, she tied Rakhi on King Bali's wrist. Goddess Lakshmi revealed who she is and why she is there. The king was touched by Her and Lord Vishnu's good will and affection towards him and his family, Bali requested Lord Vishnu to accompany her to vaikuntam. Due to this festival is also called Baleva as Bali Raja's devotion to the Lord vishnu. It is said that since that day it has become a tradition to invite sisters on sravan pournima to tie sacred thread of Rakhi or Raksha bandhan.
So, the custom did have its strong roots in our country from ages. Raksha Bandhan is celebrated around the country in diffferent ways. In the Western Ghats, rakhi is considered to be an offering to Lord Varuna - the Lord of the sea. Lord Varuna is offered Coconuts. Coconuts are thrown into the sea. Here, the festival of Rakhi is known as Nariyal Purnima, marking the beginning of the fishing season. In South India, Raksha Bandhan is called Avani Avittam and is important for Brahmins as the boys change their sacred thread called the Janeyu. Kajari Purnima is the name by which the festival of Rakhi is known in North India. The festival is celebrated when wheat and barley are sown in this region. Goddess Bhagwati is worshipped and farmers seek her blessings for a good crop. In Scriptures, Raksha Bandhan is described as 'Punya Pradayak' which means a day that bestows boons to the generous 'Vish Tarak' the destroyer of venom or the vicious 'Pap Nashak' the destroyer of sins.
Rakhi Utsav was first popularized by Rabindranath Tagore to promote the feeling of unity and a commitment to all members of society to protect each other and encourage a harmonious existance in society.
The theme of siblings’ has been a hot spot for movie makers too!
Today Raksha Bandhan is not just limited to siblings, instead has gone way beyond it. It is not necessary that the rakhi be given only to a blood brother; any male can be "adopted" as a brother by tying a rakhi on the person. Some people tie Rakhi to neighbours and close friends signifying a peaceful co-existence. Sweeta and gifts are like cherries on top of the ’sibling’ ice cream! Designer Rakhis, e-cards and e-mails, grand lunch and dinner, have all emerged as the new trend we see today. Businessmen await this season which brings them more income. Chocolates, goodies, dolls and fancies on these lines are the normal sought out gifts by a brother. A perfect family celebration, Raakhi binds family members together for an entire day, in today’s busy lifestyle of the metros. No matter distances can be covered or not, siblings make it a point to wish and pray for each other. Like a friend of mine just said, Raksha Bandhan is not a feeling to be expressed only for one day, there is much more to it. The bond of being siblings should remain everyday in our lives. Long live siblings who care for each other and a very happy Raksha Bandhan to all of you! As the popular Vietnamese quote goes: Brothers and sisters are as close as hands and feet. Let the spirit of siblinghood be a part of our lives always.
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