India is growing, developing and fast becoming a modern nation. But the new millennium has promised great changes even within a country that has forever been enveloped in a blanket of rich culture and heritage.
A population, though minor has started leading a very liberal lifestyle in a society where the sacred union of man and woman in marriage is essential for their acceptance. It is nothing but the concept of live-in relationships. This is an arrangement by choice entered into by a man and woman without the 'license' of marriage. This concept though old, has newly arisen with a touch of glitz and glamour added to it. It is slowly gaining acceptance among people, thanks to the film stars and high profile people who have been endorsing this way of living. The changing mindset is evident from daily soaps to movies like 'Salaam Namaste'.
Under such circumstances, the recent Supreme Court verdict to the much publicized comments by South Indian actor Khushboo on premarital sex becomes significant. The court proclaimed that ' man and woman living together is not an offence...Children born out of such relationships can no longer be called illegitimate' This is a landmark judgement especially in a country which is known for her strong moral values and traditional integrity. It shows the magnitude of impact that this small but influential section of people is having on our society.
This relatively new concept is gaining popularity among the youth especially in metropolitans. It has been catalysed by busy working schedules and rising house rents. The young working class who wants to soar higher in their professional life don't want to be tied down by marriage. They want to work as equal partners in their relationship. Also most individuals are not sure whether their partner is 'the one'. Such youngsters in a bid to know their partners better end up in this well packaged relationship that offers the emotional and physical security of a relationship with the freedom and independence of being single.
But such relationships come with a lot of strings attached to it. No one can ensure that children will not be born out of such relationships. The responsibility and parentage of such children will come to question once the couple is no longer together. Even the issue of rights of women involved in such relationships is questionable. Who will provide for her needs once the man no longer wants to 'live-in' with her? The main defect with such a relationship is the lack of commitment and dangerous levels of liberty that can bring the relationship to an end at any time.
Hence I strongly believe that this all-in-one solution for people who want to enjoy life but are afraid of the responsibilities that come along with commitments is definitely going to have a long standing impact on our society. It not just questions our traditional system of marriage but also the basic unit of our society- the Family.
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