A very tough call. Both being historic events in an Indian's life. The World Cup is the red asterisk in the Indian calender this year. Not just are we hosting the game, but we are also sporting a team which is in the best of its forms-youth, energy and wisdom in just the right proportions. Even if you are not a die-hard fan of the game, you cannot miss the wave of excitement. This is one moment that unites the whole country amidst all the internal tensions and differences. Cricket is the hot discussion topic all around the country. Everyone is cricket frenzy. Especially with mobile phones and radios providing instant scores, you are always 'in the game'.
The World Cup began with an explosive performance by the Indian team. But many teachers and parents rightly agree that the timing couldn't have been worse. Board exams are just knocking at many doorsteps. The pressure of expectation keeps piling as the days draw nearer. A marks card has to be carried all your life and a security check before your future endeavours. It’s a totally gruelling time for youngsters who are caught between the devil and the sea.
Many have their tightly packed schedules going completely haywire with the temptation being much more than anticipated. Though some parents have smartly got the cables disconnected, it doesn’t really help. While other families where everyone is a cricket fan, have readily sacrificed this years' games because their son or daughter is preparing for the exam. They want to make it that much more easier for their children to concentrate in their studies without being tempted by the remote.
The cricket mania is everywhere and it’s hard to miss it, especially when you are in a 'cricket worshipping' country like ours. While some of my friends have succeeded in negotiating deals with their parents, others had little luck. This has left them cribbing while the games are on. For many, boring lectures have become a bliss in disguise with mobile phones neatly hid behind their books giving them instant scores and scoops about the progress of the game.
Even teachers are complaining about students being distracted from their studies. Many have even tried to explain them about the importance of this hour in their life. But most of them are not convinced about the outcome. With the media in full force attracting even non-cricketing fans into the game, how can the gen next escape?
But as a student myself, I disagree with those parents who forcefully shut their children from cricket. Gone are the days when watching TV used to be the only source of knowing the scores. Youngsters today are smarter and the more you force them out of the game, that much more are they into it. Understanding your kids’ dilemma is of major help. Discuss with him/her the priorities. Offering a few incentives for extra study hours will only boost his confidence and make it much easier for him to study without thinking about what he is missing. But even then, there is no definite solution to this problem faced by thousands of parents around the country. The day you have found one, you have succeeded as a parent.
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