Vilasini, a saga of love, lies and deceit

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December 5, 2011

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A 60-year-old woman is allegedly kept in solitary confinement in Mangalore by her husband at the behest of his lover, finds Lubna Sheila

This is an incident which should make the people of Dakshina Kannada, the cradle of education, banking and healthcare, hang their heads in shame. This is the sordid story of a greedy man who confined his wife to a dark room in order to usurp her assets and lead a happy life with his mistress.

Vilasini, now 60, has been living a life of a virtual hostage with hardly any connection with the outer world. From a Jaycee Queen in 1971 she has come a long way over the next four decades. Interestingly, her tale of deceit and fraud came to light through their daughter Sheen and son in law Sathish Chandaran. The villain of the episode is K.P. Suresh Raj, who is Sheen’s father and Vilasini’s husband. He is working as the administrator of a prestigious education institution in Mangalore and also a leader of Samskara Bharathi, an RSS affiliate.

Suresh Raj and Vilasini lived a happy life at the lavish home ‘Madhusara’ opposite CV Nayak Hall on Kadri road. However, feud broke out when Manorama entered into Raj’s life. Manorama was a married woman and the dutiful housewife Vilasini never in her wildest dreams thought that she would become a flesh in her throne one day. The acquaintance turned into a close relationship and the couple carried on their intimate relationship behind Vilasini’s back.

A bigger shock was in store for Vilasini, when she landed at her husband’s Falnir office. As she entered, Vilasini and Raj were in a compromising position. It was a shock of a lifetime for her. The couple had a long fight when Raj returned home that day. Little did Vilasini know that the fight will be the beginning of an even bigger ordeal for her. Raj locked her inside a room and cut her off from the outside world. Since that evening of 1991 she has not been allowed to venture out of her room.

Vilasini waited in vain for her husband to mend his ways and return to her arms. But Raj was so immersed in his new love interest, that he set up a house for Manroama in Bendore. Soon the ‘mistress’ gave birth to a son and after five years, Manorama and her child entered Vilasini’s home. This left a deep scar in Vilasini’s mind and with the torture and exploitation turning more acute with passing time, she lost her mental balance. “Now her feet are swollen to such an extent that she cannot even walk on her own,” says Sheen.

Sheen had been living abroad with her husband since their marriage. Subsequently they settled in Bangalore. Although Sheen expressed her desire to meet her mother, it was spurned. She was allowed to meet her mother only on one occasion. Sheen could not believe her eyes when she opened the doors of her mom’s room. The ‘beauty queen’ of yesteryears was lying on her bed in a helpless condition. Her body had turned pale and she appeared to be suffering from malnourishment. When inquired, she confessed that she was being given food only once in a day. The once happy home had turned into a graveyard. It was really painful for Sheen to find another woman donning the role of housewife.

That was the only meeting Sheen could manage in the last 30 years with her mother. Her subsequent attempts to meet her were thwarted by her father Raj. She approached court against the unlawful confinement of her mother. She was able to secure an order from the High Court allowing her to arrange medical treatment for her mother. But, when she arrived at ‘Madhusara’ last April with women police in toe, she was sent back.

Sheen then approached State Woman’s Commission and Mangalore City Police Commissioner. Responding to the complaint, Manjula, the chairperson of the Commission had directed Women and Child Welfare Department on August 30, 2010 to carry out an investigation. Accordingly Assistant Commissioner of Police Ravindra K. Gadady conducted an investigation and concluded that the allegations leveled by Sheen were “baseless”.

However, Sheen insists, the police are backing her father because he is an influential person. She fears that her father’s lover Manorama and their son Swarun will gradually eliminate her mother and will lay claim on the properties of her father, including the house in Kadri, which will easily cost Rs. 3 crore. She has also alleged that Manorama and her son have already forged documents to carry out their plan.

Appearing before the media as a desperate mission to ‘free’ her mother, Sheen has also sought measures to safeguard the jewellery and other movable and immovable properties her mother possessed. She has also knocked on the door of the court once again seeking justice. People’s Union for Civil Liberties, a human rights organization, has thrown its weight behind Sheen’s fight for justice.

Meanwhile, Sheen and her husband Satish have been facing life threat ever since they came out in the open against the injustice being meted out to Vilasiini. “We have now moved back to Mangalore. A group of five people have threatened us of dire consequences,” says Sheen. PUCL president P.B. D’Sa says a complaint has been lodged with the police about the threat.

Suresh Raj, the man at the centre of the ‘sex, lies and wealth’ scandal, however, denies all allegations and insist that his wife is suffering from psychological disorder and being given necessary treatment. “I have not kept her under house arrest as being alleged. Baseless allegations are being leveled against me by my daughter with an eye on my property,” he says.

“The High Court has already rejected her claim about harassment. She is also pressuring me by giving false complaints to various commissions. I have also issued notice to her against the false propaganda unleashed by her,” he insists.

Mr. Raj also refutes her daughter’s contention that her sole aim was the wellbeing of her mother. “That is last thing on her mind. She is after my wealth. She can go to any extent for that. My son lives in Mangalore, but has not given any complaint,” he says.

Even as the sordid drama drags on, Vilasini, the woman who is allegedly confined to her room, evokes wide sympathy across the households in coastal districts, with many reflecting on the flip-side of wealth, beauty and unbridled human desires.

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Ram Puniyani
February 22,2020

This January 2020, it is thirty years since the Kashmiri Pundits’ exodus from the Kashmir valley took place. They had suffered grave injustices, violence and humiliation prior to the migration away from the place of their social and cultural roots in Kashmir Valley. The phenomenon of this exodus had been due to the communalization of militancy in Kashmir in the decade of 1980s. While no ruling Government has applied itself enough to ‘solve’ this uprooting of pundits from their roots, there are communal elements who have been aggressively using ‘what about Kashmiri Pundits?’, every time liberal, human rights defenders talk about the plight of Muslim minority in India. This minority is now facing an overall erosion of their citizenship rights.

Time and over again in the aftermath of communal violence in particular, the human rights groups have been trying to put forward the demands for justice and rehabilitation of the victim minority. Instead of being listened to those particularly from Hindu nationalist combine, as a matter of routine shout back, where were you when Kashmiri Pundits were driven away from the Valley? In a way the tragedy being heaped on one minority is being justified in the name of suffering of Pundits and in the process violence is being normalized. This sounds as if two wrongs make a right, as if the suffering Muslim minority or those who are trying to talk in defense of minority rights have been responsible for the pain of Kashmiri Pundits.

During these three, many political formations have come to power, including BJP, Congress, third front and what have you. To begin with when the exodus took place Kashmir was under President’s rule and V. P. Singh Government was in power at the center. This Government had the external support of BJP at that time. Later BJP led NDA came to power for close to six years from 1998, under the leadership of Atal Bihari Vajpayee. Then from 2014 it is BJP, with Narerda Modi as PM, with BJP brute majority is in power. Other components of NDA are there to enjoy some spoils of power without any say in the policies being pursued by the Government. Modi is having absolute power with Amit Shah occasionally presenting Modi’s viewpoints.

Those blurting, ‘what about Kashmiri Pundits?’ are using it as a mere rhetoric to hide their communal color. The matters of Kashmir are very disturbing and cannot be attributed to be the making of Indian Muslims as it is being projected in an overt and subtle manner. Today, of course the steps taken by the Modi Government, that of abrogation of Article 370, abolition of clause 35 A, downgrading the status of Kashmir from a state to union territory have created a situation where the return of Kashmiri Pundits may have become more difficult, as the local atmosphere is more stifling and the leaders with democratic potential have been slapped with Public Safety Act, where they can be interned for long time without any answerability to the Courts. The internet had been suspended, communication being stifled in an atmosphere where democratic freedoms are curtailed which makes solution of any problem more difficult.

Kashmir has been a vexed issue where the suppression of the clause of autonomy, leading to alienation led to rise of militancy. This was duly supported by Pakistan. The entry of Al Qaeda elements, who having played their role against Russian army in 1980s entered into Kashmir and communalized the situation in Kashmir. The initial Kashmir militancy was on the grounds of Kashmiriyat. Kashmiriyat is not Islam, it is synthesis of teachings of Buddha, values of Vedant and preaching’s of Sufi Islam. The tormenting of Kashmiri Pundits begins with these elements entering Kashmir.

Also the pundits, who have been the integral part of Kashmir Valley, were urged upon by Goodwill mission to stay on, with local Muslims promising to counter the anti Pundit atmosphere. Jagmohan, the Governor, who later became a minister in NDA Government, instead of providing security to the Pundits thought, is fit to provide facilities for their mass migration. He could have intensified counter militancy and protected the vulnerable Pundit community. Why this was not done?

Today, ‘What about Kashmiri Pundits?’ needs to be given a serious thought away from the blame game or using it as a hammer to beat the ‘Muslims of India’ or human rights defenders? The previous NDA regime (2014) had thought of setting up enclosures of Pundits in the Valley. Is that a solution? Solution lies in giving justice to them. There is a need for judicial commission to identify the culprits and legal measures to reassure the Pundit community. Will they like to return if the high handed stifling atmosphere, with large number of military being present in the area? The cultural and religious spaces of Pundits need to be revived and Kashmiryat has to be made the base of any reconciliation process.

Surely, the Al Qaeda type elements do not represent the alienation of local Kashmiris, who need to be drawn into the process of dialogue for a peaceful Kashmir, which is the best guarantee for progress in this ex-state, now a Union territory. Communal amity, the hallmark of Kashmir cannot be brought in by changing the demographic composition by settling outsiders in the Valley. A true introspection is needed for this troubled area. Democracy is the only path for solving the emigration of Pundits and also of large numbers of Muslims, who also had to leave the valley due to the intimidating militancy and presence of armed forces in large numbers. One recalls Times of India report of 5th February 1992 which states that militants killed 1585 people from January 1990 to October 1992 out of which 982 were Muslims and 218 Hindus.

We have been taking a path where democratic norms are being stifled, and the promises of autonomy which were part of treaty of accession being ignored. Can it solve the problem of Pundits?

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Ram Puniyani
March 8,2020

They say ‘history repeats itself first as a tragedy and then as a farce’. In case of India, communal violence not only keeps repeating itself, the pattern of the tragedy keeps changing every next time. Some features of the violence are constant, but they are under the wraps mostly. The same can be said about the Delhi violence (February 2020). The interpretations, the causative factors are very discernible, but those who are generally the perpetrators have a knack of shifting the blame on the victim community or those who stand for the victims.

As the carnage began presumably in the aftermath of statement of Kapil Mishra of BJP, which was given in front of a top police official, in which he threatened to get the roads emptied. The roots of violence were sown earlier. The interpretations given by the Hindu Nationalist camp is that the riot is due to the changing demographic profile of the area with Muslims increasing in number in those areas, and coming up of Shaheen Bagh which was presented was like ‘Mini Pakistan’. As per them the policies of BJP in matters of triple talaq, Article 370 and CAA, NPR, NRC has unnerved the ‘radical’ elements and so this violence.

As such before coming to the observations of the activists and scholars of communal violence in India, we can in brief say that violence, in which nearly 46 people have died, include one from police and another from intelligence. Majority victims are Muslims. The violence started right under the nose of the police and the ruling party. From the videos and other eye accounts, police not only looked the other way around, at places it assisted those attacking the innocent victims and burning and looting selective shops. Home minister, Amit Shah, was nowhere on the scene. For first three days the rioters had free run. After the paramilitary force was brought in; the violence simmered and slowly reduced in intensity. The state AAP Government, which in a way is the byproduct of RSS supported Anna Hazare movement, was busy reading Hanuman Chalisa and praying at Rajghat with eyes closed to the mayhem going in parts of Delhi.

Communal violence is the sore point of Indian society. It did begin during colonial period due to British policy of ‘Divide and Rule’. At root cause was the communal view of looking at history and pro active British acts to sow the seeds of Hindu-Muslim divide. At other level the administrative and police the British were fairly neutral. On one hand was the national movement, uniting the people and creating and strengthening the fraternal feeling among all Indians. On the other were Muslim Communalists (Muslim League) and Hindu Communalists (Hindu Mahasabha, RSS) who assisted the British goal of ‘divide and rule’ promoting hatred between the communities. After partition the first major change was the change in attitude of police and administration which started tilting against Muslims. Major studies by Dr. Asghar Ali Engineer, Paul Brass and Omar Khalidi demonstrated that anti Muslim bias is discernible in during and after the riots.

Now the partisan role of police has been visible all through. Sri Krishna Commission report brought forth this fact; as did the research of the Ex DIG of UP police Dr. V.N.Rai. Dr. Rai’s studies also concluded that no communal violence can go on beyond 24 hours unless state administration is complicit in the carnage. In one of the violence, investigation of which was done by concerned Citizen’s team (Dhule, 2013) this author observed that police itself went on to undertake the rampage against Muslims and Muslim properties.

General observation about riots is that violence sounds to be spontaneous, as the Home Minister is pointing out, but as such it is well planned act. Again the violence is orchestrated in such a way that it seems Muslims have begun the riots. Who casts the First stone? To this scholars point out that the carnage is so organized that the encircled community is forced to throw the first stone. At places the pretext is made that ‘they’ (minorities) have thrown the first stone.

The pretexts against minorities are propagated, in Gujarat violence Godhra train burning, in Kandhamal the murder of Swami Laxamannand and now Shaheen bagh! The Hindu Muslim violence began as riots. But it is no more a riot, two sides are not involved. It is plain and simple anti Minority violence, in which some from the majority are also the victims.

This violence is possible as the ‘Hate against this minority’ is now more or less structural. The deeper Hate against Muslims and partly against Christians; has been cultivated since long and Hindu nationalist politics, right from its Shakhas to the social media have been put to use for spreading Hatred. The prevalent deeper hate has been supplanted this time by multiple utterances from BJP leaders, Modi (Can be recognized by clothes), Shah (press EVM machine button so hard that current is felt in Shaheen Bagh), Anurag Thakur (Goli (bullet) Maro) Yogi Aditya Nath (If Boli (Words)Do not work Goli will) and Parvesh Varma (They will be out to rape).

The incidental observation of the whole tragedy is the coming to surface of true colors of AAP, which not only kept mum as the carnage was peaking but also went on to praise the role of police in the whole episode. With Delhi carnage “Goli Maro” seems to be becoming the central slogan of Hindu nationalists. Delhi’s this violence has been the first one in which those getting killed are more due to bullets than by swords or knifes! Leader’s slogans do not go in vain! Courts the protectors of our Constitution seem to be of little help as if one of them like Murlidhar Rao gives the verdict to file against hate mongers, he is immediately transferred.

And lastly let’s recall the academic study of Yale University. It concludes; BJP gains in electoral strength after every riot’. In India the grip of communalism is increasing frighteningly. Efforts are needed to combat Hate and Hate mongers.

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