Jeddah : Indebted, abused Indian's ordeal ends with his death

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May 12, 2010

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Jeddah, May, 12 : Mohammed Mateen's journey toward his tragic end started when his father sold their only home to marry off one of his four sisters in India.

However, after suffering abuse at the hands of her in-laws, the girl returned and later divorced her husband.

It should be noted that in Islam it is not permitted for men to take dowry from women, yet there are Muslims who still practice this.

Mateen, the only son of a fruit-seller, was from a very poor family and he took on the responsibility of getting his sisters married and supporting old parents.

To this end, the 24-year-old raised what little money he could, some of which he borrowed. The rest was collected from the proceeds of the sale of the house. Mateen used the money to pay a labor recruitment agent and travel to Saudi Arabia.

The hopeful young man came to Hafer Al-Baten under the sponsorship of a man who had brought him to work as a driver. Instead, he was made to work as a cook.

Before his death, Mateen told Arab News that his sponsor had made him sleep in a field and given him practically no food. He was only paid SR400 a month, even though the labor recruitment agent in India had promised him SR1,000. Mateen claimed his sponsor did not even pay him that small amount. Mateen had no experience in cooking and failed miserably when preparing dishes.

Fearing his poor culinary skills would persuade his sponsor to send him back to India without money to pay back his debts, Mateen ran away in hope of finding a job elsewhere.

Soon after he fell severely ill and friends took him to King Fahd Hospital where he was admitted to intensive care, registered as an “unknown patient”, and diagnosed with failure in both kidneys.

The hospital provided Mateen with adequate medical treatment, including dialysis three times a week. While in the hospital Mateen had told Arab News that all he wanted was return to Indian soil.

The interview, published about five months ago, led to some philanthropists visiting him in hospital and offering to help with his repatriation.

With assistance from the Indian Consulate and a social worker at the hospital, he was able to return to India.

Mateen was reunited with his family, but the trauma of what had happened to him, the fact the debt still had not been paid, and the ongoing pressure to marry his sisters off was all too much for his father, who started suffering from heart disease.

This meant Mateen's mother was struggling to pay for the treatment of both her husband and son.

Mateen used to insist that whatever little money they had should be spent on his father's treatment.

He believed that his own disease was incurable and at least if his father survived he would be able to work and earn money to marry off his sisters.

Tragically, Mateen's father passed away from a heart attack soon afterwards.

Fourteen days later, on May 8, Mateen succumbed to his illness. Mateen and his father were the only breadwinners of the family.

Now Mateen's mother and his four unmarried sisters are left in a rental home with no source of income and debts to pay.

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June 17,2020

Mangaluru, Jun 17: A private flight chartered by UAE-based NRI hotelier Praveen Shetty has brought home around 175 people from United Arab Emirates.

This is the third flight chartered by Mr Shetty, chairman of the Fortune Group of Hotels, and president of the Karnataka Non-Resident Indian Forum, to repatriate his employees and other stranded Kannadigas.

The Air Arabia flight with 168 adult passengers and six infants on board took off from Sharjah International Airport at 9:45 pm (UAE time) on June 16 and landed at Mangaluru International Airport at 2:50 am Indian Standard Time on June 17.

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June 2,2020

Bengaluru, June 2: A television anchor allegedly committed suicide after her boyfriend refused to marry her.

29-year-old Chandana V K made a selfie video before taking the extreme step, in which she blamed her boyfriend Dinesh for her decision.

The Suddaguntepalya police have taken up a case of abetment to suicide against Dinesh and his family, including his father Lokappa Gowda, mother Gayatri, sister Shyla and uncle Swamy alias Dayananda. The police have formed a team to nab the accused who are absconding.

Chandana, who used to also appear in real estate advertisements, was a resident of Krishnamurthy Layout in Tavarekere. She hailed from Belur in Hassan district.

According to a preliminary investigation, Chandana consumed poison after making the video.

In the video clip addressed to Dinesh, she says: "You said if I die, it is good for you. So, I am ending my life and you are the reason for it, Dinesh." She sent the clip to Dinesh, his parents, her parents and friends around 2.30 pm on May 28.

On seeing the video, Chandana's parents alerted her neighbours and asked them to go check on her. They took her to a private hospital where she died while undergoing treatment around 12.30 am on May 30.

In his police complaint, Chandana’s father said his daughter and Dinesh were in a relationship for the past five years. Dinesh had promised to marry her and both the families were aware of the relationship.

Dinesh had borrowed Rs 5 lakh from Chandana. But for the past few months, he began avoiding her and even refused to marry her. His family members told Chandana that they would get him married to someone else, the complaint said. The police said action would be initiated taken against Dinesh and his family.

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June 22,2020

Bengaluru, Jun 22: Concerned over the increase in COVID-19 cases in the city, Karnataka Chief Minister B S Yediyurappa on Monday directed officials to implement lockdown measures strictly in the clusters which have reported more infections.

Yediyurappa held a meeting with Ministers and senior officials regarding containing COVID-19 in Bengaluru and said it can be achieved only if preventive measures are implemented strictly and asked the officials to work in this direction.

"Lockdown shall be implemented strictly in the clusters which reported more cases, especially, K.R. Market and surrounding areas such as Siddapura, VV Puram, Kalasipalya etc. It was decided to seal the adjoining streets, where the cases are reported, a release from the Chief Minister's office said. Stringent action would be taken against those who violate quarantine norms and FIR would be filed if necessary, it said.

Till Sunday evening, the state capital has reported 1,272 cases of COVID-19, including 64 deaths and 411 discharges. On Sunday, as many as 196 fresh cases were recorded. Officers were directed to ensure hygiene and provide other basic amenities to the people who were quarantined in the social welfare department's hostels and other government institutions.

"COVID-19 should be contained without affecting the economic activities in Bengaluru, which resumed recently," the Chief Minister said.

Noting that booth-level officers and volunteers were working to trace contacts and monitor quarantined persons, he said the COVID war room shall have real-time information on the availability of beds in various designated hospitals and facilitate treatment to the infected without loss of time.

A bulletin from the Bruhat Bengaluru Mahanagara Palike (BBMP), the city civic body, said there were 298 active containment zones in the city. BBMP Commissioner B H Anil Kumar along with the Chamarajpet Congress MLA B Z Zameer Ahmed Khan visited a few slum areas in the city to take stock of the COVID-19 situation, officials said.

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