Jeddah : Indebted, abused Indian's ordeal ends with his death

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May 12, 2010

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Jeddah, May, 12 : Mohammed Mateen's journey toward his tragic end started when his father sold their only home to marry off one of his four sisters in India.

However, after suffering abuse at the hands of her in-laws, the girl returned and later divorced her husband.

It should be noted that in Islam it is not permitted for men to take dowry from women, yet there are Muslims who still practice this.

Mateen, the only son of a fruit-seller, was from a very poor family and he took on the responsibility of getting his sisters married and supporting old parents.

To this end, the 24-year-old raised what little money he could, some of which he borrowed. The rest was collected from the proceeds of the sale of the house. Mateen used the money to pay a labor recruitment agent and travel to Saudi Arabia.

The hopeful young man came to Hafer Al-Baten under the sponsorship of a man who had brought him to work as a driver. Instead, he was made to work as a cook.

Before his death, Mateen told Arab News that his sponsor had made him sleep in a field and given him practically no food. He was only paid SR400 a month, even though the labor recruitment agent in India had promised him SR1,000. Mateen claimed his sponsor did not even pay him that small amount. Mateen had no experience in cooking and failed miserably when preparing dishes.

Fearing his poor culinary skills would persuade his sponsor to send him back to India without money to pay back his debts, Mateen ran away in hope of finding a job elsewhere.

Soon after he fell severely ill and friends took him to King Fahd Hospital where he was admitted to intensive care, registered as an “unknown patient”, and diagnosed with failure in both kidneys.

The hospital provided Mateen with adequate medical treatment, including dialysis three times a week. While in the hospital Mateen had told Arab News that all he wanted was return to Indian soil.

The interview, published about five months ago, led to some philanthropists visiting him in hospital and offering to help with his repatriation.

With assistance from the Indian Consulate and a social worker at the hospital, he was able to return to India.

Mateen was reunited with his family, but the trauma of what had happened to him, the fact the debt still had not been paid, and the ongoing pressure to marry his sisters off was all too much for his father, who started suffering from heart disease.

This meant Mateen's mother was struggling to pay for the treatment of both her husband and son.

Mateen used to insist that whatever little money they had should be spent on his father's treatment.

He believed that his own disease was incurable and at least if his father survived he would be able to work and earn money to marry off his sisters.

Tragically, Mateen's father passed away from a heart attack soon afterwards.

Fourteen days later, on May 8, Mateen succumbed to his illness. Mateen and his father were the only breadwinners of the family.

Now Mateen's mother and his four unmarried sisters are left in a rental home with no source of income and debts to pay.

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July 23,2020

Udupi, July 23: A 70-year-old woman, who had tested positive for coronavirus, passed away last night in Udupi taking the district’s covid-19 death toll to 12.

The deceased was a resident of Chantharu in Brahmavar. She was an asthma patient. For past few days, she was suffering from cold and fever. 

Her throat swabs were sent for testing and the report came positive last evening. She breathed her last at home even before being shifted to hospital. 

The woman has two daughters and both of them are married. Due to the fear of virus, none of her relatives were ready to touch her body.

Meanwhile, Dr Premananda K of district health department reportedly sought help of the activists of Popular Front of India (PFI). 

Under the supervision of PFI’s medical wing in-charge Muneer Kalmadi, the body was shifted to the district hospital with all necessary precautionary measures.

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January 19,2020

Mangaluru, Jan 19: ‘Ride For Rotary’ convoy of motor vehicles was flagged off from Hotel Ocean Pearl Inn at Bejai-Kapikad, Mangaluru on Sunday, 19th January, 2020 at 9.00 a.m. Rotary district governor Joseph Mathew flagged off the event along with Assistant Governors Sumith S. Rao, Geethanand Pai and Ritesh Baliga. The riders headed for Puttur after topping up their fuel tanks at Lady Hill Petrol Pump.

2019-20 Ride For Rotary includes 28 motorbikes and 5 cars. 38 Rotarians from 14 countries are participating, in this, the fourth edition of the event. They will traverse through Madikeri, Mysore, Wayanad, Ooty, Coimbatore, Munnar, Thekkady and Allepey before terminating at Kochi on 29th of January, 2020. The participating nationalities are India, Norway, Sweden, Canada, France, Germany, USA, UK, Switzerland, Austria, Denmark, Poland and Belgium. They belong to ages 21 to 78, with 78-year old Otto Rieve from Canada being the senior most enthusiast. Swiss national of Indian origin Raj Patholi and Mangalorean Abraham Zacharias are among the riders. 

Mangalore was chosen as the starting point for the convoy route this year which will cover Kerala, Karnataka and Tamil Nadu. On the eve of the event, the organizers hosted a gala dinner for the riders at Citi Beech, Bolar. The riders were given a glimpse of the traditional dance forms and were treated to some wonderful songs in Tulu and Kannada along with local coastal cuisine.

They were also given a glimpse of the major service projects undertaken in our district by Rotary, such as the Rotary Blood Bank on Wheels, the Physiotherapy Clinic at Wenlock Hospital, the Schools adopted by Rotary and the Ashrams and Villages that are being served by Rotary. The idea behind this is to see that riders carry these memories and think of helping Rotarians in India through their matching contributions for future service projects.

‘Ride For Rotary’

Ride for Rotary is a charity event conceived by Rotary District 3181 which comprises of the revenue districts of Mysore, Kodagu, Dakshina Kannada and Chamarajanagar covering 85 Rotary Clubs in 9 zones. Rotarians from across the world will come together for twelve exhilarating days. They will traverse through the meticulously arranged routes, enjoy the natural beauty of the places and experience the varied cultures and cuisines of the region. Ride for Rotary connects people and places like no other - Rotary Connects the World.

The proceeds from the event go to The Rotary Foundation, a charitable organisation that works tirelessly for the upliftment of the society.

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February 21,2020

Thiruvanthapuram, Feb 21: Rape-accused Bishop Franco Mulakkal has been accused of sexual abuse by another nun. Police sources say that there is at least one more nun who has given a statement of sexual assault against the bishop.

This nun is a witness in the rape case registered against Franco Mulakkal. She is the 14th witness in the case and in her statement, she said that the bishop made sexually-colored and lewd remarks to her over the phone.

As per the nun, they were in communication via phone calls, chat and video calls for a period of two years from 2015 to 2017.

In the statement, the nun said that she kept quiet as she was scared of the bishop.

In her witness statement in September 2018, she said that in 2017, the bishop visited the convent she was in and hugged and kissed her.

Police say that the witness was not ready to file a complaint against the bishop. They had alerted the police in the jurisdiction and when the team met her, she refused to file a complaint. Hence a separate case wasn't registered against Bishop Franco

The first nun of Missionaries of Jesus had accused Franco of raping her multiple times at the Kuruvilangadu convent in Kottayam. The FIR in the case was registered in June 2018.

Then after protests, Franco was arrested on September 21, 2018.

The chargesheet in the case was submitted in April 2019. In the chargesheet, Bishop Franco Mullackal has been charged under various sections of the IPC: 342 (wrongful confinement), 376 (2k) (rape on a woman incapable of giving consent), 376 (2n) (causing grievous bodily harm during rape), 376 (c) (a) 377 (unnatural offence) and 506 (1) (criminal intimidation).

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