Muslim women miss their NRI kin during Eid

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November 7, 2011

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Mangalore, November 7: The joys of the Eid season may be palpable in the air, but for a considerable number of Muslims women in the twin districts of coastal Karnataka, it is also a time for missing their kin, who live in gulf countries.

“My husband went to Dubai, four years ago and since then celebrating Eid has been a strange experience for me”, said Shama Parween, a home-maker from Moodbidri.

“Over the phone he also expresses his difficult experience in celebrating the festival far away from home without me, his parents and siblings”, she said.

Zareena, a teacher from Ujire said that her husband has not been able to visit home town during the Eid festivities since he began his job in the capital of United Arab Emirates. Two of her sisters and all three brothers too are making their livelihood abroad.

"I am sure that my husband will miss me and his mother. He was very fond of my mother-in-law's delicious cooking”, she said.

Hawwa, a 72 year old mother of nine children, said four of her sons live abroad. “Two of my gulf sons have visited India, but, did not meet me. They are celebrating Eid with their wives and in-laws. Other children conveyed me Eid Mubarak over phone,” she said.

Khatheeja, whose husband recently bagged a good job in the city of Riyadh, said that she spends her day with her parents and in-laws. “But, I am really wondering what my hubby is up to”, she exclaimed.

“However, to make up for his absence at home, he sent double money a couple of days ago. He asked me not to hesitate to spend money during Eid”, she said.

Bushra of Belthangady too received a little extra money from her husband, who called her on Eid morning and spoke for about an hour.

For Aisha, 28, who is celebrating her second Eid in the absence of her gulf husband, it was hardest when she came to know that her husband's Eid holidays were suddenly cancelled.

Roshan Akthar, a mother of two cute children, said that she was wondering how to celebrate the great festival without her beloved husband, who works for a prestigious firm in Abu Dhabi. “He had joined us in Eid-ul-Fitr. Today, my children are asking me why I look so dull. How can I explain them?” says, Akthar.

Loneliness

"This is my third Eid-ul-Adha. However, there is a feeling of loneliness this year compared to previous years, as I am missing my husband for the first time during a festival. I only long to be with him this Eid as I am not ready to celebrate any festival with my parents and siblings until they stop worshiping idols”, said Fathima, who reverted to Islam three years ago.

She added that the sadness can however be overcome with increasing prayers and mingling with her good friends, with whom she is spending the Eid holiday.


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July 20,2020

Lucknow, Jul 20: Dr Azizuddin Sheikh, who was fighting COVID-19 as a front line worker, passed away after contracting coronavirus in Uttar Pradesh. He is survived by a wife and three small children. 

40-year-old Dr Azizuddin, who hailed from Rajasthan, was serving as a paediatrician at Avanti Bai Hospital and Duffein Hospital, Lucknow for past few years. He had also worked in the Middle Eastern countries. 

When a large number of doctors preferred to stay home following the covid-19 outbreak, Dr Azizudin was working 16 to 17 hours battling the pandemic. 

According to sources, he tested positive for the covid-19 last month. “After the reports came positive, he had to call the concerned authorities many times to take him to the hospital,” recalled his family members.

He was first admitted to Lok Bandhu Hospital and was later shifted to KGMU after his condition deteriorated. Later he was taken to SGPGIMS.
 
“Despite following all the guidelines and taking every precaution while treating coronavirus patients, he tested positive for the covid-19. It’s a shock for all of us,” he said.

He used to console his family members and instill confidence among them, said one of his relatives. 

A local newspaper quoted his friends as saying that he was very dedicated in serving people that he used to take minimal possible fees from his patients. When the family asked him to increase consultation fees his reply would be, “They are poor people, how will they afford”?

After his death, one of his patients Alok Singh wrote about an incident. “When I asked doctor Sahib why he charges so less, his answer was I have to answer Allah. The truth that he has left us will always be the reason for our grief.”

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May 12,2020

Mangaluru, May 12: The first repatriation flight to Mangaluru from Dubai with nearly 180 passengers landed at the international airport here. 

The total passengers, including 88 men, 84 women, five children and two infants arrived by the Air India Express flight IX 384 late Tuesday night, airport sources said.

There were 12 medical emergency cases and 38 pregnant women among them, they said. The district administration had made arrangements for receiving the passengers, who were provided with sanitizers and masks. They were advised to maintain social distancing as per the health protocol.

All the foreign returnees were screened as per the standard operating procedure to ensure that they were asymptomatic.

The passengers were taken to their chosen place of accommodation in KSRTC buses. They will be undergoing a 14-day quarantine in the places, which will be monitored by doctors assigned by the health department. More than 17 hotels and 12 hostels have been arranged for the accommodation of the returnees.

Passengers were also asked to download the mandatory 'Aroygya Sethu' app for contact tracing. Rahul Shinde IAS who is in charge of arranging quarantine facilities, airport director V V Rao and district health officer Ramachandra Bairy were present at the airport.

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May 4,2020

Chikkamagaluru, May 4: KSRTC resumed its service from Chikkamagaluru district headquarters to taluk centres amidst the lockdown to contain COVID-19 on Monday. Chikkamagaluru is in the green zone.

Hundreds of passengers travelled to Sringeri, Mudigere, Koppa and Kadur taluks since morning from the Chikkamagaluru city.

According to KSRTC Divisional Controller, passengers who wish to travel to taluk centres have to register half an hour prior to the journey. 

Sanitisers were placed in the bus stand in Chikkamagaluru to sanitise hands before boarding the buses.

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