Wife demands divorce as husband eats non-veg food

April 23, 2017

Ahmedabad, Apr 23: A 23-year-old Amdavadi has filed an application with the police, accusing her husband of five years of torturing her. Her grouse is that he eats non-vegetarian food - reportedly breaking his promise of staying off meat once they get married.

maneatThe inability to compromise over their food habits has led the couple to opt for divorce. Rima Doshi who belongs to the Jain community is a staunch vegetarian that eschews even onions, potatoes, brinjals and garlic. Six years ago, she fell in love with Karan Chandela who worked in a small computer office opposite her house near Sola Bhagwat.

As they got to know each other, Rima found that Karan who was a Rajput from Bihar was a hardcore non-vegetarian. This was not acceptable to Rima whose community objected to the eating of meat and fish based on the principle of non-violence (ahimsa). When she objected to his food habits, Karan reportedly promised to give it all up for love. Happy with this promise, Rima told her parents about Karan. Her parents protested because they came from different caste, community and social strata. While Rima's father was a senior government official, Karan's family managed a farm in Bihar.

Her father also felt that Karan, a computer engineer who earned a measly Rs 15,000 a month, would be unable to keep his daughter happy. Rima, who had become a BCom graduate by then, refused to budge on the issue.

Unwilling to see her unhappy, her parents agreed to the match. Since Rima was their only child, the parents asked the couple to move in with them. Two years later, Karan and Rima gave birth to twin daughters. Differences began to creep up between the couple. According to Rima, Karan would not give her enough money for the kids. He would also allegedly make frequent "business trips" out of the city. As their fights grew in intensity, Rima's parents advised her to separate.

When she refused, they asked the couple to move out. Karan and Rima rented a house in another locality nearby and shifted there. The fights continued, but things came a head some days ago when Rima found out from his friends that Karan had eaten non-vegetarian food on a recent trip with his friends.

The 28-year-old and eight of his friends had gone on a trip to Udaipur and Srinathji in Rajasthan. That was the last straw. Rima confronted Karan and a big fight ensued. He allegedly thrashed her and threatened to kill her. Rima left with her kids and shifted to her parents' house.

They convinced her to go to the police. Handing over her application, Rima told PSI at the Mahila Police Station that Karan earned almost Rs 40,000 a month but gave her very little money to run the household and manage the needs of their kids. She also claimed that he lied a lot.

According to Rima, Karan lied about how much salary he really got. He would allegedly claim to go out of town on company business when he was actually vacationing with friends, drinking and eating non-vegetarian food.Karan should not have got married if he did not want to give up eating non-vegetarian food, she told the PSI.

Karan, who was also summoned to the station, told the PSI that he had never consumed non-vegetarian food in front of Rima, or taken her out anywhere were non-vegetarian food was served.

He said he ate non-vegetarian food and consumed alcohol only when he went out of the city with friends and was sure that he would not return home that day. ACP Panna Momaya said, "The PSI tried to counsel the two, asking them to spend some time with their kids and think things over. However, complainant was adamant that she did not want to return to her husband's house.

She also did not want to file an FIR. The two decided to file for divorce with mutual consent."

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February 10,2020

New Delhi, Feb 10: A 44-year-old man allegedly killed his daughter and son before ending his life by jumping in front of a Delhi metro train at Haiderpur Badli Mor station on Sunday, police said.

No suicide note has been recovered, but police claimed that the man, Madhur Malani, was depressed since his sandpaper-manufacturing factory was closed some six months ago due to financial crunch leaving him jobless. Madhur's parents had been supporting his family financially since then.

He used to stay with his wife Rupali, daughter Samiksha (14) and six-year-old son Shraiyans at a rented house in northwest Delhi's Shalimar Bagh area, they said.

Rupali was not at home when Madhur strangled their children. He might have also smothered their daughter but the exact cause of death would be ascertained only after the post-mortem reports arrive, a police official said.

After killing his two children, he jumped in front of an approaching train at Haiderpur Badli Mor Metro station following which he was rushed to a hospital where doctors declared him 'brought dead', the official said.

Metro services on the Yellow Line were briefly delayed due to the incident.

"Delay in services from Samaypur Badli to GTB Nagar due to a passenger on track at Haiderpur Badli Mor," the Delhi Metro Rail Corporation (DMRC) tweeted.

After about 15 minutes, it again tweeted that normal services have been restored. The Delhi Metro's Yellow Line connects Samaypur Badli in Delhi to HUDA City Centre in Gurgaon.

The suicide was reported to the police around 5.40 pm while the Shalimar Bagh Police station received a call about the killings around 6.50 pm.

On reaching the house, police found bodies of the children lying in beds in two rooms. During enquiry, it was learnt that their father has left the house, a senior police officer said.

While police were trying to trace Madhur, they learnt about a suicide at the metro station. On verifying the details, it surfaced that Madhur committed suicide after killing his children, the officer said.

Rupali told police that she had gone to a nearby market around 3 pm and on returning home she found the bodies of her children while her husband was missing.

A case under relevant sections of the IPC has been registered and investigation was underway, Deputy Commissioner of Police (Northwest) Vijayanta Arya said.

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March 15,2020

Mumbai, Mar 15: Three suspected coronavirus patients who were quarantined left a government hospital in Maharashtra's Ahmednagar district on Saturday evening without informing anybody, the police said.

By late night, however, two of them returned to the Ahmednagar district civil hospital. Search was on for the third patient, a Topkhana police station officer said.

Earlier, two women and a man admitted to an isolation ward of the district hospital in Ahmednagar, left without informing the doctors, an officer said.

The civil surgeon contacted the Tophkhana police station in Ahmednagar city and sought polices help in tracing these persons, whose medical reports are awaited, the official added.

A person in Ahmednagar district is among the 31 confirmed cases of coronavirus in Maharashtra.

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January 18,2020

New Delhi, Jan 18: Two men accused of kidnapping and brutally raping a five-year-old girl in Delhi in 2013 have been held guilty by a court in the national capital today. The POCSO court, which will announce the quantum of punishment on January 30, said, "In our society the minor girls are worshipped as goddess on certain occasions but in the present case the victim child had experienced exceptional depravity and extreme brutality."

"The crime against the victim was committed in a most grotesque and revolting manner and the collective conscience of the community was shaken," the court added while holding the accused - Manoj Shah and Pradeep Kumar - guilty.

The assault which took place just four months after Nirbhaya's brutal rape had grabbed headlines with its shocking details. The girl, who was named Gudiya by sections of the media, went missing and the police told her parents to look for her themselves. She was found two days later, tied in the basement of the east Delhi house she lived in with traces of candles and bottles inside her private parts.

The convicts had fled after raping Gudiya and shoving a candle and bottle inside her private parts, leaving her at Manoj Shah's room, after believing the five-year-old to be dead. The child was rescued 40 hours later on April 17, 2013.

Manoj Shah and Pradeep Kumar were arrested by Delhi police separately from Muzaffarpur and Darbhanga in Bihar respectively in 2013. The charge sheet was filed on May 24 that year and charges were framed by the court on July 11. But, it took more than five years to complete the recording of the statement of 57 prosecution witnesses in the POCSO court.

"Though the trial should have been completed in two years, we are happy we got justice," said the father of the girl.

One of the convicts, Manoj Shah, allegedly assaulted some reporters while being taken out of the courtroom.

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